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Attribute substitution makes us replace hard questions with easy ones, causing systematic mis-judgment; the piece shows two uncomfortable but free practices-admitting uncertainty and making conscious judgments-to curb this bias.

The article spotlights attribute substitution, the brain's shortcut that swaps a hard question for an easy one, surfacing under labels like anchoring, availability heuristic, and status-quo bias. By treating every decision as a quick mental sleight, we often convince ourselves we're being efficient while actually building a house of cards made of false confidence.

In practice this bias fuels endless overwork, unhealthy productivity metrics, and noisy comparisons. The author recounts Ramon's habit of stitching together friends' achievements into an impossible benchmark and Ricky's disappointment over a missed opportunity, both illustrations of how we let easy, emotionally satisfying answers steer our actions, eroding morale and clouding real decision-making.

The antidotes are stark: first, openly admit uncertainty-answer "I don't know" instead of fabricating confidence; second, replace shortcuts with deliberate judgment by defining success and tracking what you truly know versus guess. This epistemic hygiene cuts through noise, keeps teams from spiraling into burnout, and restores clear, actionable decision-making for leaders who need to navigate complex problems.

Source: experimental-history.com
#leadership#technical leadership#engineering management#software engineering#personal growth#humility#mindset

Problems this helps solve:

Decision-makingFeedbackBurnout & morale

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